Wednesday, July 27, 2011

Pregnancy Update

The past few weeks have been chaotic and emotional. We are very excited to be expecting another addition into our family, a little girl! I never truly realized the blessing it was to have easy pregnancies with our first two children. I am not so lucky this time around, but still very grateful that things are continuing to progress.

About three weeks ago I first started experiencing bleeding around 20 wks. I was in and out of the hospital that week until they admitted me over the weekend until the bleeding would stop. The doctors suspected a chronic abruption of the placenta. I was released home on bed rest. During my 20wk ultrasound, the doctor believed that I had a complete placenta previa. The previa diagnosis was odd because it didn't show on other ultrasounds.

On Friday, July 22nd, I was experiencing heavy bleeding and again went into the hospital. The bleeding was causing contractions, which in turn would cause more bleeding. After a couple shots they were able to stop the contractions and slow the bleeding. The doctors explained that if the bleeding got worse they would have to do an emergency c-section. I was currently 23 wks along. They sent in the neonatalologist to discuss our options. After we decided that we would want to resuscitate if the need for a c-section arose the doctors gave me a round of steroid shots to help the baby's lung development. The doctors were able to get things settled down and stable and I was able to go home on Monday.

It was during this time that my team of doctors got together to discuss my due date. My original due date was Dec 3, but was moved up after my first doctor appt to Nov 20. However, during the 20 wk ultrasound, the baby's measurements were within 7-8 days of the Dec 3 due date. So it was decided to move back to the Dec 3 due date to cover all the bases and we will track the baby's development in regular scans further along in the pregnancy. It is also in the plan to give me another round of steroid shots when I hit 24 wks with the Dec 3 due date.

On Friday, July 29th I started experiencing painful, regular contractions. Again, into the hospital we went. They put in an IV with magnesium sulfate to stop the contractions. They slowly lowered the dose of the mag. until they were able to take me off it Sunday morning and sent me home with a few doses of indomethacin.

While I was in the hospital they did another ultrasound. There were two high risks doctors and three residents there with me trying to figure out what was going on. The ultrasound showed the placenta on the left side, away from the cervix. So my diagnosis gets changed again! It is back to the original diagnosis of chronic abruption of the placenta.

Chronic abruption of the placenta is when a piece of the placenta is detached from the uterus and there is a higher risk for preterm labor and stillbirth. I will continue to be on close watch and the doctors have said to expect to be in and out of the hospital through out the pregnancy.

Through all of this chaos I have seen how much we have been blessed by our Heavenly Father. He has blessed us with wonderful friends that have been there to take care of kids, bring meals, and just check in on us to make sure we are okay. He has blessed us with loving family members. My sisters Michele, Bekah, and C.C. have taken time out of their lives to be with us and help while I'm on bedrest. I have a wonderful mother and mother-in-law who are both planning trips to come and stay with us and help. And even more family and friends that have kept us in their prayers.

Most of all, our Heavenly Father has blessed us with His love. I have been so grateful to have the priesthood in our home and the strength that I have received from priesthood blessings and the knowledge that I have of the gospel. It has strengthened my faith that Heavenly Father has a plan for each of us, and even if we don't know what that plan is, He will be there for us, to comfort us and guide us.

9 comments:

Stonez said...

Oh Jennie...wish we were closer. Would love to jump in and help and take your two cuties! We will be praying for you honey! Take 'er easy...if that's possible. Love ya!

Melinda said...

I wish I was closer to help out in a more physical way! We continue to pray for you and your little girl. I can't imagine how scare you must have felt during this whole ordeal and still are. I am so grateful for modern medicine that can help keep that little girl where she belongs and help speed her lung development for when she does come. Maybe if you emailed me your address I could send your kids a "big sister/big brother" packet of activities or something to help pass the time with something new while you aren't able to do much.

Rachel said...

You are so strong Jennie! I can't imagine being where you are. I am glad you have so many people to help you out. I hope things go ok and that you can continue to progress and have a happy healthy baby. Wish I could be there to give ya a hug!

Unknown said...

We've sure been thinking of you and your sweet family! Thanks for the update on the pregnancy. We'll be praying for you and baby number threeeee!

Erica Bazil said...

Well, first of all CONGRATULATIONS! We are thrilled to hear of your pregnancy - although it's hard to hear all the struggles you're going through. We are being very cautious with our own pregnancy due to all the trouble we had with Vanna, etc. but other than a few minor hiccups we are doing pretty good this time around. But gosh, I just can't help but empathize and feel so strongly for you and your struggles - and none of my struggles have even been quite so serious. It sounds like you have a great team of doctors there to help and are receiving lots of love and support from friends and family. I can only add my testimony to your own that I know if we are faithful we can be comforted and better see our Father in Heaven's plan for us. I truly know that our trials/struggles help us to grow, prove us and shape us into the people our Father in Heaven desires us to be - more like His Son, Jesus Christ. We are definitely thinking of you and praying for you and your family.

Laura said...

Jennie! What an ordeal you have been through! This pregnancy sure has been a toughie. You must be cooking up an amazing little pumpkin (of corse). I am thinking of you and praying for you. Keep us updated!

Becky said...

My dear friend... such a worriesome thing pregnancy can be. I will be thinking of you and the family and praying for all 5 Spicers!
love ya tons!

Myk said...

Pray everything goes well and you are able to safely deliver that sweet baby girl!

Jodi said...

I am so sorry you have had to face all of this Jennie. I'm glad the doctors are watching you carefully and I pray for the best for you, the baby and the family. Your post was a great testimony. May the Lord continue to bless your family.